This was a great chapter. I really like the direct statements regarding priorities, health and emotions. I can honestly say finding a balance is not my strength at this time. I recognize that I am "out of balance" yet can't seem to find the hours in the day to do all the things that need my attention. I have done a better job this school year of delegating.
The section regarding "picking one's battles" it is important to recognize not everything requires you immediate attention or may not be a battle that needs to be fought! In the beginning, I didn't do this, I felt I have do give EVERY situation my individual attention. I now tend to listen and observe, then get involved if it is needed.
I strongly agree with the importance placed on visibility on campus. I find that problems are reduced if not eliminated just be being present and vigilant. By being visible, I am not only reducing certain behaviors of students but it also allows me time to interact with students, staff and parent volunteers - building those relationships and having those little conversations go a long way reducing behavior problems and parents like to see their child has a positive, personal relationship with the principal!
I can honestly say, my personal life is WAY out of balance. I have a wonderful husband who is very supportive and understanding. The focus is for me to "survive" until I finish school and then work to "realign" my time and priorities. My children are older and are a big help:) As far as exercise, I haven't been to the gym in months... thank goodness, I am a pretty organized person, my office is neat and I have a prioritizing system - that does help to regulate my stress level at work :)
Christy,
ReplyDeleteThank you for admitting that you too are just trying to "survive" until this program is over. I haven't been able to find the balance. Unlike you, I have small children and so often times I'm falling asleep doing my homework. I too haven't gone to a gym in months, but I'll even say years! It was a great chapter to remind us all of things that should be done. Thank you for sharing!!
Christy,
ReplyDeleteYour school is very lucky to have you. Thank you for reminding me of the importance of picking and choosing my battles. I feel like I have to save every child and I need to cover every single thing on my lesson plans. In first grade, I don't always get to everything and then I feel like I've let me kids down. I appreciate a leader acknowledging that it is ok...there is always tomorrow. Great post!